Comments on: Everything About Me Is Wrong http://naturallycurvy.wordpress.com/2009/05/05/everything-about-me-is-wrong/ One woman sharing her thoughts and experiences about life. Mon, 10 Aug 2009 21:52:43 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: amlosgfa http://naturallycurvy.wordpress.com/2009/05/05/everything-about-me-is-wrong/#comment-1618 amlosgfa Thu, 25 Jun 2009 15:21:22 +0000 http://naturallycurvy.wordpress.com/?p=227#comment-1618 Cree, I've never read your blog before until today, when searching around for people who feel the way I do about pregnancy and childbearing...and then when I read this post, I was absolutely moved. Like Kelly, I can't provide you with any answers. I can't say "oh, cheer up, things will get better", because I don't know that--and what an unhelpful thing to say! I agree with your therapist about disclosing things to people...and this post is certainly an excellent start...:) Cree,

I’ve never read your blog before until today, when searching around for people who feel the way I do about pregnancy and childbearing…and then when I read this post, I was absolutely moved.

Like Kelly, I can’t provide you with any answers. I can’t say “oh, cheer up, things will get better”, because I don’t know that–and what an unhelpful thing to say!

I agree with your therapist about disclosing things to people…and this post is certainly an excellent start…:)

]]> By: cicadasinmay http://naturallycurvy.wordpress.com/2009/05/05/everything-about-me-is-wrong/#comment-1604 cicadasinmay Fri, 12 Jun 2009 12:45:11 +0000 http://naturallycurvy.wordpress.com/?p=227#comment-1604 I relate to a lot of that! I relate to a lot of that!

]]> By: Kelly http://naturallycurvy.wordpress.com/2009/05/05/everything-about-me-is-wrong/#comment-1603 Kelly Fri, 12 Jun 2009 11:45:23 +0000 http://naturallycurvy.wordpress.com/?p=227#comment-1603 Dear Cree, Your words moved me to tears. I don't have an answer for "what do I do?" or "what the hell is left?" I've looked so long for the "magic fix" for what I perceive as "wrong" with me. The pain of my self-rejection is the foundation upon which so much rests. I too struggle with being able to love myself and give myself good care as a result of that love. I am twenty years your senior and I all can offer you is hope. The constant flirtation with suicide and the despair of my late twenties has passed. I am glad I wasn't successful in leaving. Today, I am more often at peace than at war with myself and the world. I am content more than discontent. I want to be here. In all of it's brokenness, I want to be part of this world. And for a depressive sort like me, that's saying something. I don't know you and I've only read this one post. I fell across it today and felt compelled to comment. I don't presume my comment will mean anything to you. I write only to let you know I heard you. May the fragile hope I read in your "rant" flourish and grow. May you come to find love for yourself and pleasure in your being here. Dear Cree,
Your words moved me to tears. I don’t have an answer for “what do I do?” or “what the hell is left?” I’ve looked so long for the “magic fix” for what I perceive as “wrong” with me. The pain of my self-rejection is the foundation upon which so much rests. I too struggle with being able to love myself and give myself good care as a result of that love. I am twenty years your senior and I all can offer you is hope. The constant flirtation with suicide and the despair of my late twenties has passed. I am glad I wasn’t successful in leaving. Today, I am more often at peace than at war with myself and the world. I am content more than discontent. I want to be here. In all of it’s brokenness, I want to be part of this world. And for a depressive sort like me, that’s saying something.

I don’t know you and I’ve only read this one post. I fell across it today and felt compelled to comment. I don’t presume my comment will mean anything to you. I write only to let you know I heard you. May the fragile hope I read in your “rant” flourish and grow. May you come to find love for yourself and pleasure in your being here.

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